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Dating message playbooks
Real examples, the reasoning under each one, and replies you can adapt without any tool at all. Written for adults who would rather read four pages than guess.
All guides
- How to reply to "hey" on a dating appA one word opener hands you nothing to work with. Six replies that turn it into a conversation.
- What to text after a first dateThe message after the date usually decides whether there is a second one. Eight texts for eight different endings.
- How to tell if someone is interested over textRead the pattern across a week instead of decoding one message. What actually carries information, and what people over read.
- Best first messages for Tinder, Hinge and BumbleOpeners that get answered on all three apps, with the reasoning, plus the ones that quietly kill a match.